Friday, September 17, 2010

Be Who You Are To Achieve A Lasting Relationship

One of the toughest challenges that many young singles, men and ladies, face in their quest for finding a right partner on a lasting relationship, is the inability to attract the right person for marriage. Above dilemma shares the common cause for people reaching at the time of marriageable age.

What you see here is the Law of Attraction at work.  This Law states that You Attract Who You Are, Not Who You Want. 

Another way to look at it is this, ‘Birds of a feather flock together’.

However, this law is a paradox!  This is because it is almost impossible to want something that is not compatible with whom you are.  Your wants come out of your mental conditioning.  You want what you consider valuable. In other words, what you want is invariably connected to some sort of scale of preference in your mind.  Your ‘wanting’ is an aspect of your attitude or mentality.

If you desire to attract the right partner for a lasting marriage, you must understand that what you want is an integral aspect of who you are.

Never allow the world push you around and tell you who you’re supposed to be. Putting on a false social mask just to please everyone else, is unnecessary if you’re looking for a lasting relationship.

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