Be Who You Are To Achieve A Lasting Relationship

One of the toughest challenges that many young singles, men and ladies, face in their quest for finding a right partner on a lasting relationship, is the inability to attract the right person for marriage. Above dilemma shares the common cause for people reaching at the time of marriageable age.

What you see here is the Law of Attraction at work.  This Law states that You Attract Who You Are, Not Who You Want. 

Another way to look at it is this, ‘Birds of a feather flock together’.

However, this law is a paradox!  This is because it is almost impossible to want something that is not compatible with whom you are.  Your wants come out of your mental conditioning.  You want what you consider valuable. In other words, what you want is invariably connected to some sort of scale of preference in your mind.  Your ‘wanting’ is an aspect of your attitude or mentality.

If you desire to attract the right partner for a lasting marriage, you must understand that what you want is an integral aspect of who you are.

Never allow the world push you around and tell you who you’re supposed to be. Putting on a false social mask just to please everyone else, is unnecessary if you’re looking for a lasting relationship.

Choose the Right Partner to a Blissful Marriage

Marriage is supposed to be forever, but how can it be forever when people get married for the presents, pregnancy, and the fear of being alone? If you get married for one of those reasons, you will surely find yourself headed for divorce court eventually. There are simply too many people rushing into marriage without thinking of the consequences. The trick, of course, is to choose the right partner at the first time.

Relax and take your time to get to know the other party inside and out is a great way to determine if he/she is the right one to choose for marriage. Do not try to hurry love, as the song says; go leisurely, always take your time, and if the relationship does not seem right on the mark, back off. Settling for a mediocre relationship is never good, so do not settle for it. Speak up if there is something huge that irks you. You deserve a right partner in your life who will make you feel great, emotionally, sexually and in all the ways, which are important in a relationship. Anyone who begins belittling you or controlling in the early stages of the relationship will only do it more harm as time passes.